Everyone wants
something in life, something out of life. Some want more than a body in a pair
of trousers while others want simply that. Some will settle for a bungalow in a
local while others will settle for nothing short of a mansion in the heart of
the city. Some will even acquire for themselves private jets while some will
comfort themselves with fleets of cars. It's preference: everyone wants
something, no matter how little or considerably large it may seem.
Everyone
has a goal, an objective, a mission guided by a vision. These goals, visions
and objectives are there to be realized and accomplished. They are not meant to
be admired like a bride but to be achieved. And the far of the how much we go
in making this a reality is dependent on several factors not without our Tom
may not get the actual, expected, desirable result. Getting to know these
factors may be of good help, putting them into consideration will definitely be
of a higher one.
How You Think: Thinking is a process that comes upon us all so
naturally, but how we do it makes all the difference there is to it. It is a
tool, a very powerful tool in achieving our goals. How you think really
matters. It matters because it drives your investment. It matters because it
drives your passion. It matters because it drives your commitment, channels
your energy and influence your view. As an example, someone that believes
nothing is impossible will find himself helpless in the face of an impossible
situation because by ways and reasoning he has led himself to believe
everything is possible while another person who by the same ways and reasoning
believes impossibilities though exist doesn't exist until we say it does will
have little or no problem dealing with such impossible situation if he ever
finds himself in one. It is good to say all is well, but it is not bad to admit
when it is not. In setting our various goals a need exists to follow up with
sound ideologies and philosophies, which are both products of broad thinking.
Someone that believes good things come to those who wait may never get a chance
at better things. Equally the person that believes the patient dogs eat the
fattest bone may never, if will ever, lay his hands on fleshy meats. Let's find
time to do some thinking for ourselves. It contributes a far greater deal to
how far we go in life. We must, and not should, equip ourselves with the right
ideologies and philosophies. If at all we must go far in life.
How You Act: Thinking is one thing, acting is another. It is one
thing to think, it is another thing to act. To think and not act is tantamount
to you having food and refusing to have it cooked, you are pretty much if not
likely to starve, if lucky to death.
Ideas by convention
naturally flow into our minds, but whether they do or not won't make a
difference if nothing is done about them. A teacher may indeed have knowledge,
but it makes no difference if that knowledge is not imparted. You may have
ideas, but it won't matter if you don't act on them. It won't if all you do
every day is sits back and imagine how beautiful things will be when you are in
no range of doing them. Things if I must tell you really do not have to be
perfect before we put those ideas into use. If you don't someone else will.
There is simply no guarantee someone else somewhere is not nursing those ideas
and ready to act on it. Because everyone has ideas, and the only thing that
will distinguish and differentiate you will be your readiness and earliness to
act. This readiness and earliness will give you the needed edge. While others
are still conceiving and nursing you are out there exploiting, exploiting abundance
of this competitive world. With this inbuilt into you, there is possibly no way
you won't go far in life.
How You talk: This appears to be critical. Critical because of its
technicality. There is a way you talk that gets people angry and likewise the
manner that calms them down. There is a way you speak that encourages people,
likewise a way that get them totally discouraged. As a leader, there is this
composed reassuring manner you talk that resurrects that hope in your
followers. Likewise as a leader, there is that manner of speech that kills
whatever it is that is left of hope in your followers.
How you talk
really do matter. You sure and really don't want to be arrogant in words when
your Tom is potentially nothing in comparison to others. Doing so will be
building a Wall of China to keep out your potential benefactors. How far you go
in life to be sincere is to a substantial extent determined by how you talk.
You can take for an example a President of an imagined nation, and imagine him
delivering an undiplomatic speech in a so undiplomatic manner before an
international community. Now think about how that will fair for his administration,
and think about how well it will fair for a future ambition in the
international community. You honestly and sincerely do need to consider how you
talk, it may be the only Red Sea hindering your Isrealite from going far in
life.
How You Relate: Relationship is an essential part of humanity,
telling you otherwise will be lying to you. There has been no known recognized
personality in the history of the world that has been unable to form a
meaningful and essential relationship with people. To borrow the saying, to go
fast in life you may need to walk alone; to go far you walk with people. Going
fast may not be the same thing as going far. In movies walking alone may have
its advantage; in practice there is little close to nothing benefit to be
derived. Man by default is a social animal, and thus a need to be connected to
many people as possible. When you walk alone, there is a high chance of running
into troubles without no hope of any one coming to save you. But when you walk
in group, when you form an essentially meaningful relationships with people
near and far, there are always, wherever you go, people waiting and willing to
come to your rescue should you ever run into any trouble. It does without any
arguments, help you to go far in life.
We all want to
go far in life, I do. To achieve this a need exist to do something, some things
if we must be extensive. The truth here is there can be no limit to how far we
can go in life, but there can, however on the other hand, be a limit to how far
we are ready to go. And this is something that can be settled now.
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